It's good to be back.
While catching up on the latest episodes of NPR's "This American Life," I was fascinating to listen to the piece entitled "Got You Pegged" which deals with assumptions we make without meaning to stereotype. Two stories in particular stuck out: Chuck Klosterman's somewhat cliched rant on stereotyping and Germany made me chuckle but also struck an important nerve, and Shalom Auslander's hilarious bit on his tropical vacation. Both hit a chord because of my recent travels to Hong Kong and Thailand, particularly Thailand for reasons which I will go into below.
Klosterman's story was about his experiences in Germany and how not only did German people stereotype Americans, but he found himself stereotyping Germans for their stereotyping of Americans. Confusing? You bet, but funny and fascinating. At the end, Klosterman explains that when people ask him "How was Germany?" His response has become "I have no idea." I feel this way about Thailand. With no one to guide me through the mess, I felt lost and confused, and utterly uneducated. I found myself constantly wishing someone from Thailand would take me under their arm and tell me what's what. The socio-political arena? No problem, it's as follows. The economic situation? Here's a spontaneous essay on that. What's with the king? Oh, that's simple. The conversation I had with said imaginary local Thai person went on and on to the point where I could not distinguish my own confusion and discontent from indigestion. So, in the end, I have no idea what Thailand was like. Sure, I can tell you what it was like to be an American tourist in Thailand. I can tell you how Southern Thailand has no real people in it--how it's this shell of something that was, filled with obnoxious beach resorts and ugly, white tourists who think bathing is "optional," and how everyone, and I mean everyone, is trying to rip you off. I could go on and on about the evils of capitalism in the country, or how in Bangkok capitalism has an entirely different face...but this doesn't really tell you what "Thailand was like." It gives you some random, biased, stereotyped impressions of something too large for words.
Auslander's bit on his vacation had me rolling on the floor. In true Jewish nature (i.e. neurotic), he goes on about how he can easily ruin even the most perfect of vacations. Well, his discussion reminded me of my own experiences--or, "how I learned that I hate beaches in the summer part II" more aptly put "how I realized I'm a city girl through and through." I'm not sure I need to go into that here (therapy, much?), but the point is, I'm happy surrounded by buildings and traffic, not so much surrounded by sand and surf, the pounding of the waves quickly turning into a shard of glass stabbing in my mind as I try to sleep. Overdramatic? Of course. Funny? I hope so.
It's good to be back in Taipei.




